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	Comments on: Resolutions? Goals? Or Status Quo?	</title>
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		By: Candice		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Candice]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jan 2019 23:34:07 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://candiceransom.com/blog/resolutions-goals-or-status-quo/#comment-10403&quot;&gt;Lisa&lt;/a&gt;.

Oh, my goodness!  I haven&#039;t thought about those books in 30 years!  I&#039;ve totally forgotten that Jackie wanted to be an ornithologist!  Of course, Jackie was me and Sharon was my sister, waiting for each publication date of the trilogy with a baseball bat (I actually toned her down!).]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://candiceransom.com/blog/resolutions-goals-or-status-quo/#comment-10403">Lisa</a>.</p>
<p>Oh, my goodness!  I haven&#8217;t thought about those books in 30 years!  I&#8217;ve totally forgotten that Jackie wanted to be an ornithologist!  Of course, Jackie was me and Sharon was my sister, waiting for each publication date of the trilogy with a baseball bat (I actually toned her down!).</p>
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		By: Candice		</title>
		<link>https://candiceransom.com/blog/resolutions-goals-or-status-quo/#comment-10404</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Candice]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jan 2019 23:30:38 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://candiceransom.com/blog/resolutions-goals-or-status-quo/#comment-10402&quot;&gt;Michelle&lt;/a&gt;.

Love the nonfiction by day, fiction by candlelight image!  And I do the same as you do--go off and do something just to feel I&#039;ve actually moved or saw something besides my office walls.  Some days, my &quot;done&quot; list is pretty boring.  Nothing happened beyond what I set out to do.  But other days lovely things will drop into my lap (or inbox) and those I tend to forget about long-term.  Thanks for reading and a happy, productive 2019 to you, too!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://candiceransom.com/blog/resolutions-goals-or-status-quo/#comment-10402">Michelle</a>.</p>
<p>Love the nonfiction by day, fiction by candlelight image!  And I do the same as you do&#8211;go off and do something just to feel I&#8217;ve actually moved or saw something besides my office walls.  Some days, my &#8220;done&#8221; list is pretty boring.  Nothing happened beyond what I set out to do.  But other days lovely things will drop into my lap (or inbox) and those I tend to forget about long-term.  Thanks for reading and a happy, productive 2019 to you, too!</p>
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		By: Lisa		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisa]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jan 2019 14:21:13 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[So funny - I remember when Jackie Howard in your &quot;My Sister the Meanie&quot; books told her teacher she wanted to be an ornithologist. As a kid it was the first time I had heard the word! Enjoy your course - learning is a wonderful thing!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So funny &#8211; I remember when Jackie Howard in your &#8220;My Sister the Meanie&#8221; books told her teacher she wanted to be an ornithologist. As a kid it was the first time I had heard the word! Enjoy your course &#8211; learning is a wonderful thing!</p>
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		By: Michelle		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Michelle]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jan 2019 17:53:20 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Loved this post! As a writer (non-fiction by day; fiction by candlelight) I can often feel like there is nothing to show for a full day&#039;s work. This becomes so acute sometimes that I say &quot;yes&quot; to some activities just to feel more accomplished. And then I find those activities interrupting writing and/or simply overwhelming me (because I&#039;m an introvert after all, which is one reason I write for a living). I love the &quot;Done did that&quot; list idea. I imagine it may help me find more closure in the evenings and maybe even excitement for the next day. &quot;If I did this, what else could I do???&quot; Anyway, thank you, Candice. You are always challenging status quo, and I appreciate the work and the work-of-mind that that implies. What you put into your days and writing is helpful for all of us readers. Happy New Year!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Loved this post! As a writer (non-fiction by day; fiction by candlelight) I can often feel like there is nothing to show for a full day&#8217;s work. This becomes so acute sometimes that I say &#8220;yes&#8221; to some activities just to feel more accomplished. And then I find those activities interrupting writing and/or simply overwhelming me (because I&#8217;m an introvert after all, which is one reason I write for a living). I love the &#8220;Done did that&#8221; list idea. I imagine it may help me find more closure in the evenings and maybe even excitement for the next day. &#8220;If I did this, what else could I do???&#8221; Anyway, thank you, Candice. You are always challenging status quo, and I appreciate the work and the work-of-mind that that implies. What you put into your days and writing is helpful for all of us readers. Happy New Year!</p>
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		By: Candice		</title>
		<link>https://candiceransom.com/blog/resolutions-goals-or-status-quo/#comment-10401</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Candice]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jan 2019 20:55:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://candiceransom.com/blog/resolutions-goals-or-status-quo/#comment-10400&quot;&gt;Patience Mason&lt;/a&gt;.

Happy New Year, Patty! This blog needs tending, hoping to post more often than the past few years!  I like your list idea of patterns, which can also be substituted for habits. Not listening and projecting is a terrible habit I have.  Sometimes I won&#039;t even let the person finish their sentence before butting in.  Need to fix that, too.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://candiceransom.com/blog/resolutions-goals-or-status-quo/#comment-10400">Patience Mason</a>.</p>
<p>Happy New Year, Patty! This blog needs tending, hoping to post more often than the past few years!  I like your list idea of patterns, which can also be substituted for habits. Not listening and projecting is a terrible habit I have.  Sometimes I won&#8217;t even let the person finish their sentence before butting in.  Need to fix that, too.</p>
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		By: Patience Mason		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Patience Mason]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jan 2019 16:19:49 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Good to hear from you. I never do resolutions either.I try to carry new patterns into the new year and leave old patterns in the old year. I write a list. Example: old pattern. not listening. New pattern: listening to what people say, not what I project they are saying.
it helps me...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good to hear from you. I never do resolutions either.I try to carry new patterns into the new year and leave old patterns in the old year. I write a list. Example: old pattern. not listening. New pattern: listening to what people say, not what I project they are saying.<br />
it helps me&#8230;</p>
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		By: Candice		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Candice]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jan 2019 15:45:22 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://candiceransom.com/blog/resolutions-goals-or-status-quo/#comment-10398&quot;&gt;Elizabeth D&lt;/a&gt;.

It really is the small things--we may cross off our to-do list, but do we record things like an email exchange, or a new website discovery, or an interest that went into a different direction, or a new book?  A record of accomplishments, yes, but also a record of those little things we stumbled on and forgot.

The course is amazing--I&#039;m a real biology student!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://candiceransom.com/blog/resolutions-goals-or-status-quo/#comment-10398">Elizabeth D</a>.</p>
<p>It really is the small things&#8211;we may cross off our to-do list, but do we record things like an email exchange, or a new website discovery, or an interest that went into a different direction, or a new book?  A record of accomplishments, yes, but also a record of those little things we stumbled on and forgot.</p>
<p>The course is amazing&#8211;I&#8217;m a real biology student!</p>
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		By: Elizabeth D		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Elizabeth D]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jan 2019 09:13:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Great idea!! We have to remember to reward ourselves for our small accomplishments, but first, we have to acknowledge them! I envy your Cornell class - that sounds fascinating! :) e]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great idea!! We have to remember to reward ourselves for our small accomplishments, but first, we have to acknowledge them! I envy your Cornell class &#8211; that sounds fascinating! 🙂 e</p>
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		By: Candice		</title>
		<link>https://candiceransom.com/blog/resolutions-goals-or-status-quo/#comment-10397</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Candice]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Jan 2019 23:33:11 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I do that, too.  I keep a separate computer document with that day&#039;s output.  Then there are weeks that I can&#039;t get to it--it&#039;s depressing to see how much time had passed!

Happy New Year!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I do that, too.  I keep a separate computer document with that day&#8217;s output.  Then there are weeks that I can&#8217;t get to it&#8211;it&#8217;s depressing to see how much time had passed!</p>
<p>Happy New Year!</p>
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		By: Caroline McAlister		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Caroline McAlister]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Jan 2019 20:33:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This was really helpful. I am trying to work on a middle grade novel and writing down what I’ve done each day will help me keep at it so I don’t get stuck and quit around page 20.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This was really helpful. I am trying to work on a middle grade novel and writing down what I’ve done each day will help me keep at it so I don’t get stuck and quit around page 20.</p>
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