Notes from Candice Ransom

Robin Journal: April 20-23, 2014


After dragging her tail feathers for about a week, Zelda finally got ahead of me.  Saturday she had two eggs (one more than I guessed).  Easter Sunday I watched her sit on the nest with a look of concentration.  It wasn’t mid-morning like the book said, but about 8:15.  (If you’ve been up since dawn hunting worms, 8:15 is mid-morning).  She flew away after about twenty minutes.  Later she came back and settled herself for a long stay.  I figured she’d laid her last egg and was now incubating. 

Sure enough when I checked that afternoon, three beautiful eggs lay in the sunny nest. 

Oh, I thought, I hope she stops at three.  Five in the family would be perfect.

I always thought families of five was the perfect number, a notion that probably came from an old health textbook of my sister’s called Five in the Family.  Back in the Dark Ages, we bought our textbooks instead of renting them.  My sister left her books behind and I read them and drew witches in her old spelling book.


The family in Five in the Family consists of Mother, Father, Sue, Jack, Tommy, and Jack’s puppy Spot.  The front cover shows Father taking a photo of the others (using a Brownie box camera).  Each section features a different member of the family.  At the beginning are “photographs,” giving the book an album look.

I suppose that was part of my fascination with this book.  It certainly wasn’t the writing:

 It was Jack’s birthday, and the family was looking at pictures of him.  “Oh!” laughed Jack.  “Here I was on my very first birthday.”

“This is how you looked at three,” Father said.  “And here you are at five.”

“I like last year’s picture,” said Sue.  “Tommy and I were in it, too.”

“And now you have another birthday, Jack,” said Mother.  “Dear me!  How fast the time goes!”

The stories are all syrupy because it is, after all, a reader on health.  For Jack’s birthday party, “There were hot soup and sandwiches, milk, and apples.”  If I’d been invited to that party, I would have stomped out. 

Despite the book being soaked with insipid dialog like, “Oh, Daddy, why didn’t you tell me before you took my picture?  Then I could have been standing straight,” I read this book over and over, memorizing the illustrations.  I wanted to be in that family.  


Last year a new family moved across the street from us.  Mother, Father, a boy, two girls, and a dog.  Five, the perfect number.  I watched them out the window on school mornings.  The mother walked the boy and the oldest girl to the bus stop, carrying the youngest girl.  She kissed them goodbye and waved until the bus rounded the corner.  In the afternoons, the boy and girl hopped off the bus and raced home, eager to return to their safe, cozy nest. 

I remembered how I stood at the bottom of our driveway alone, waiting for the bus to come down a busy highway.  At the end of the school day, I walked slowly up our long steep driveway.

Last weekend I glanced out the window (we have lots of windows in this house—I don’t really spy on the neighbors!).  The father spread a blue blanket under their blossoming Bradford pear.  The kids came out carefully carrying a glass and plate.  The whole family ate their lunch in the front yard, the dog bounding from one to the other.  Later the father helped the youngest roller skate and then played catch with the middle girl.

I thought how well-loved these children are, how good and kind their parents are.  Such a contrast to my own childhood.  It wasn’t that I wasn’t loved.  I wasn’t well-loved.  I know the difference.  And I knew it then.

Five in the family.  Scott and Zelda would have three children.  Two boys and a girl.  I would name them Bill, Howard, and Irene, after my brother-in-law, stepfather, and mother.  I like the idea of them coming back as robins.  And I decided to throw a little birthday party when they get here—with cake and ice cream, no apples or soup or milk. 


Then next day when I checked the nest, Zelda had left me a surprise.  A fourth egg.  Six in the family is okay, too.  I’ll name the new robin Esther, after my husband’s mother. 

They’ll be here in less than two weeks.  Two weeks in the nest.  And then they’ll be gone.  How fast the time will go.

2 thoughts on “Robin Journal: April 20-23, 2014”

  1. I’m reading the Robin Chronicles out loud to my family, and we are enjoying both of your story lines – the one of the robin family and the one of your family. I do come from a family of five, three girls with Mom and Dad. But, I’ll have to say we girls always thought the perfect family size was four. This had to do with one thing only – how many could be seated comfortably in booth or at a table when we went out to eat. Invariably, one of us kids ended up in the “extra” chair shoved at the end in some precarious position. Nevertheless, I’m glad to see the Robin family growing and I love their chosen names. Your descriptions of the lovely family across the street made me smile, because like you, I yearned for something I did not have growing up. But, now I give all that I missed to my children, and that giving has blessed my life. Thanks for keeping us posted on the Robin Family.

    • Your perfect family size made me laugh! We went out to eat so seldom that this never crossed my mind as being a problem with other families.

      Nobody has the “perfect” family. It’s always somebody else’s family. I’m reading Frances Mayle’s new memoir, Under Magnolia, and she thought everyone in her neighborhood had the perfect family. Until she grew up and learned the truth.

      Zelda is still sitting. She has about another week to go and then all creation will break loose!


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